[DefyPhysics]

Hey guys,

I've had enough 'bullshit'.  There has been a lot of negativity on the cod2 server as of late.  Especially with the UAN guys.  Granted, I haven't been there to see who started it, but just like when you have kids it's not who started it, it is how you handle yourself in a confrontation.  I liked this server originally because I wasn't all that great, but those with the NoBS| tag treated me with respect.  I stuck around, got better, and tried to earn respect in return.  It seemed less like a childish clan, but more like a place where people got together, played a video game and had fun doing it.  All the while not taking themselves too seriously.  That's why I was willing to pay a couple dollars out of my pocket to keep this positive thing going, and be a part of it.  The philosophy of the clan was ingrained right into the tag and clan name itself.  No Bullshit. 

I will not mention any names, but negativity has been seeping into the cod2 server from our own members.  Insulting those that aren't good/mistreatment/unnecessary kicking/racial comments/homophobic comments... The list goes on.

I would like to however mention those who still make it fun to be on the server by being positive and mature.    Mindfreak, Baim, Heartsfan, Bodyfreak, Camilo, pashito, DannyBoy, drewda, and of course smitty and sounds (off the top of my head, of course there are more).

Just wanted to speak what was on my mind.  Keep the comments positive please.  Sometimes our actions and the things we say have motives behind them that speak for the negative outbursts online, especially because you are behind the shroud of the internet.  However, even in an online community such as ours where we interact with people more or less the same as we do coworkers and family, we should treat each other with respect.  We should also keep this image to those on our public servers because this is how we keep this good thing going.  I would hate to see what is such a cool thing be tarnished by a couple guys that think being a pissed off computer nerd taking themselves too seriously is a cool thing to be online, because it's not.  (that was not aimed at anybody in particular, but is instead a stereotype that MANY online gamers fit all too well) 

[pcgamer]

I am truly sorry to hear your concern and I agree with you to a certain degree. The "talking shit" part is inevitable. NoBS is a giant clan now and we have hundreds of people. This increases the odds of people having a bad day/mood at any given time. This can be prevented but not avoided. You also need to learn how to play along. When you are talking to anyone (I am targeting NOBS members here) It is best to phrase a statement in a way which doesn't offend them, even if it does then try to wrap it up with good ol' "lol"

The UAN thing is totally ridiculous because they provoke us, forcing us to talk back. I myself hate them a lot because it is a clan of dumbass noobs. Just because someone is better they think it is automatic hacking. I proudly admit kicking one of their members today because I was playing peacefully and he team killed me on purpose. Don't I have the right to kick that person? Mind you I rarely kick people. Later on Pitbully banned a couple because they are being douchebags. These assholes need to be avoided because they piss off almost every member including me. I don't give two shits if they are someone's friend because again this is a clan for "NO BULLSHIT"

I have known you for quite a long time (from our first cod2 clan ever to our little friendly OSK clan) and never seen you be THIS upset so I am guessing you are really really fed up. Try to take it easy, its a harsh world out there ... gotta get used to it.

peace

[gren]

can't believe I wasn't on your positive and mature list ,defski iam pissed.

[DefyPhysics]

I am truly sorry to hear your concern and I agree with you to a certain degree. The "talking shit" part is inevitable. NoBS is a giant clan now and we have hundreds of people. This increases the odds of people having a bad day/mood at any given time. This can be prevented but not avoided. You also need to learn how to play along. When you are talking to anyone (I am targeting NOBS members here) It is best to phrase a statement in a way which doesn't offend them, even if it does then try to wrap it up with good ol' "lol"

The UAN thing is totally ridiculous because they provoke us, forcing us to talk back. I myself hate them a lot because it is a clan of dumbass noobs. Just because someone is better they think it is automatic hacking. I proudly admit kicking one of their members today because I was playing peacefully and he team killed me on purpose. Don't I have the right to kick that person? Mind you I rarely kick people. Later on Pitbully banned a couple because they are being douchebags. These assholes need to be avoided because they piss off almost every member including me. I don't give two shits if they are someone's friend because again this is a clan for "NO BULLSHIT"

I have known you for quite a long time (from our first cod2 clan ever to our little friendly OSK clan) and never seen you be THIS upset so I am guessing you are really really fed up. Try to take it easy, its a harsh world out there ... gotta get used to it.

peace

OK.  I've learned a bit more about the UAN thing.  What they did was uncalled for and very immature.  It's sad because I know a lot of them and they go almost as far as you and I go back.  They are actually a group of cool guys that enjoy a totally different version of call of duty 2.  Their server is a GREAT place to learn because it's mostly TDM and if you die you can SPRINT back to the front lines.  That's probably why they're not as skilled as most of us, but some people like to run around in a high paced game spraying machine gun bullets everywhere like rambo.  It's fun sometimes.  Anyway, on to the point.  Just because a few bad eggs in the clan did something to us doesn't mean we have to do anything immature or inappropriate back.  We should carry ourselves with dignity and be the better clan in the end.  Just because a few people with [UAN] in front of their name fucked with our server, doesn't mean that all of them are like that.  We should treat them all as individuals and only kick those responsible, or those that break the rules on the server.  I know a lot of trash talking is just for fun and thats cool, just make sure the people that it's aimed at are OK with it.  Keep it positive in the servers.  Keep people wanting to be a part of us.

TIT(.)(.) forever. 

[DefyPhysics]

and uhhh.. grenski...   

[pcgamer]

TIT(.)(.) forever. 

Hells Yeah!!!

@Gren: get good

[smitty1258]

Defy,
Said everything perfectly. Just because I am freinds with butzie, does not mean that Im sticking up for there clan, get that straight PC. I am however asking for ALL OF US, to just leave them alone. I turned TK to 0, problem solved.

I dont think you guys understand that not all of UAN are bad people. Infact NoBS and UAN share great interests, and because of that we bond, and of course clash. Case in point, UAN was the first COD4 server to be over 32 slots, would we of got it eventually, ya, but fact of the matter is butzie TOLD ME HOW TO DO IT, AND NO ONE ELSE! So UAN and NoBS were the only to servers over 32 slots for days, almost a week infact!

I expect NoBS to be respectful, even when the dickwad thats trying to provoke you isnt, thats why we ban/kick, Read the RCON rules, does it say, respond with cocky comment, then kick?(only to make said person kicked even more pissy and come back bitching? Or does it say,  warn, then KICK?

I think most of you forgot how we came so far so fast, have we grown into what we are today, we dont have hundreds, maybe a little over 100, but nothing more.

Everyone has a bad day, so because you have RCON and a bad day, you can do what you feel like? GROW UP!

What a few members of UAN did to us in the past wasnt right, I agree, THAT IS ALL BEHIND US NOW! ITS FIXED.

I dont care if you fuck around with the UAN guys, as long as they know it, is suppsoed to be fun, not me looking through logs for an hour to see which of our members were being douches as well as theres. Wow great fun!

Stop the bullshit guys, thats it, this would be my second time asking for us to leave them alone. let them come play, if the disrespect us as a clan, then they can be kicked/banned.

Not everyone has to get along, but everyone does need to show some respect......

PS: PC only one line of this post was directed at you, not the rest.

[werth]

cletus told me to make fun of tonic lolz... to piss him off so he can complain to butzie and butzie can tell tonic off...

anyways last night there was some bs goin on.. kr-me tking, a bunch of them mouthing off... KICK, i kicked a couple tking and what not..

i dont see the big deal in chirping them.. its all in good fun.. i really dont care if they play in our server.. hell our server was over 30 peeps last night, about 5-6 UAN... as long as they dont come in and chirp our server/gameplay/members.................

[DefyPhysics]

Thanks for the response Smitty.  A few of the people that this post was directed towards either apologized directly to me or explained their actions.  I even got a few apologies from people this post wasn't even about.  That takes guts, maturity, and integrity to either admit you're wrong or to explain what happened rationally without getting angry.

I'd like to put this out there.  A lot of us have issues that obviously reach further than any stupid game (no matter how fun) and many of us use COD as a way to escape.  Sometimes when our escape becomes frustrating, or someone is blatantly trying to ruin our fun we take it personal and go overboard out of frustration.  That's when things turn negative.  I'd like to offer anybody that has issues with family, school, friends, women, or anything really to xfire me, AIM me or whatever just to vent or get advice.  I went to college for it (and am planning on going to get my Masters Degree soon), plus I'm a bartender.  If I didn't want to hear about people's lives, I wouldn't be doing what I'm doing. 

As for me, what I'm going through is the stress of applying to several schools throughout the country to get my Masters.  My girlfriend has an intestinal disease and has been on disability for 4 months after a week's stay in the hospital.  She's also on some meds that make her COMPLETELY NUTS.  Insurance is costing her ~$500 month.  It beats paying for the $3700 IV treatment she has to take every 6 weeks.  On top of that, I work at a Hyatt pool bar right outside Disney World, where in the coming months I will be in the Florida heat for 8 hours serving drinks to spoiled rich kids and wives while daddy exploits the pharmaceutical and healthcare industry that causes my girlfriend's health insurance bill to be so high at a meeting inside the hotel.

Little do they know, when I'm done I come home and kill a hundred or so people... online.   

xfire = defyphysics
aim = b0dyj4r

[The_Spartan300]

WOW!!!!!

[werth]

lol defy... well said... make sure to bring int he tips!

[DannyBoy]

good point and i had some fun nice you mention me
i can be pissed to gren so get off

[pcgamer]

We all love you defy

[LuxicoN]

 

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